1 234 5    My actions are guided by how I think the other person will react or respond

1 234 5    I ten to help others out even if it means that I suffer or lose out.

1 2345    I lie or withhold the truth to protect myself.

1 2345     I find myself covering for another person's behavior.

1 2345     I have marked or counted alcohol bottles, made notes/recorded other people's conversations,e                                                 arched for hidden drugs or secrets, or in other ways monitored someone else's behavior

1 2345     I spend a great deal of time talking about, and being too concerned with, other people's                                                  behavior, problems or future

1 2345    Thing must be "just so" for me to feel comfortable.

1 2345     I try to protect others form making mistakes, whether they ask for my help or not.

1 2345     My mental attention is on pleasing you.

1 2345     My social circle has diminished significantly since becoming involved with a spouse or child.

1 2345     I put aside my b=values in order to stay with or be connected with another.

1 2345     The quality of my life is in direct relation to the quality of yours.

1 2345     I am a control-a-holic type person.

1 2345     I am not so aware of how I feel. But I am aware of how you feel.

1 2345     I attend more than one workshop/personal growth seminar per month.

1 2345     I am slow to be aware of or feel the pain when people hurt me.

1 2345     The less nice a person is to me, the more I try to win them over.

1 2345     I tend to be a compulsive caretaker.

1 2345     I have a hard time telling the truth, because it may hurt someone.

1 2345     I have a very difficult time doing things just for me.

1 2345     I work more than 45 hours per week.

1 2345     I will go to great lengths to get approval.